Shame – You Have the Power to Heal It
Shame is a complex human emotion that we all experience at one time or another. You might feel shame because of something about your appearance, events related to your family, or even a lack of education. You might feel you're not worthy somehow. Shame shows itself in many forms.
Even if you struggle greatly with managing your shame, trust in the knowledge that you can heal it.
Consider the following methods to strengthen your emotional health and soothe your spirit:
Identify shame's presence.
Because we tend to try to cover up that which embarrasses or demeans us, you'll probably need to do some personal confrontation of your own emotions.
Are there particular people in whose presence you feel embarrassed? If so, why?
Perhaps when you're in a specific type of situation, you notice that you tend to close down emotionally or feel numb.
Begin to take note of when your emotions are either stirred up or flat (which means you feel nothing at all).
Recognize you're "only as sick as your secrets."
In the counseling profession, there is a saying: "We're only as sick as our secrets." This adage means that the things about ourselves that we keep to ourselves are the exact issues that we need to acknowledge and do something about.
Consider discussing your shame with someone you trust.
Because shame can be a tough emotion to handle, it's helpful to have someone you can talk to about it.
The more you talk about it, the better you'll be able to gain some understanding about what triggers your feelings of shame. Talking about your shame de-mystifies it and makes it something real that you can resolve. If you believe you could benefit from professional assistance, contact me for a free consultation.
It requires courage to share your insecurities with another person. Your bravery reveals your passion, strength, and optimism.
Learn to love yourself.
No matter what your shortcomings, you deserve to experience the uplifting feelings you can get from self-love. Even though you think you have a lot of spiritual "blemishes," you must allow yourself to see your real beauty within.
Connect with your spiritual power.
Whether it's your religion, an interest in Eastern philosophy, or a strong belief in Mother Earth, establish a connection with whatever spiritual power you believe in. When you have a spiritual power you can lean on, you'll likely find solace and the strength to face and resolve your personal shame.
Have confidence that you'll overcome.
We all have our difficulties to deal with and challenges to manage. Reach deep within yourself and you'll find the confidence to persevere. Remember that you've resolved challenges before and know that you can conquer this too.
Shame is a normal human emotion that we've all felt. If you're willing to do the work, you can resolve the hurt and shame you feel inside. Use the methods outlined above to move forward toward a happier, more rewarding life. You do have the power to heal your shame.
All the best!
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